Ladies Night Out
“Did the spoken word ad in the Floyd Press say that no men were allowed?” I joked when I scanned the café and counted ten women. Because of Rick’s retirement party up the road at Mama Lizardo’s attendance was light. So we gathered up close to the mic that most of us didn’t feel the need to use, sipped our various drinks and took turns reading mostly poetry.
“I read this one ten years ago at a poetry slam in a Roanoke bar,” I told the group of women before reading my first poem. “I either won or placed that night, but they didn’t give me anything as a prize. It was late and smoky,” I complained.
“It’s called “The School of Higher Learning,” I went on, “and is best read and heard without shoes on, but since it’s January, I won’t require that.” LOOK SEE SPOT JUMP SALLY … Don’t talk in class …. or take your shoes off under the desk … don’t draw outside the lines …
“I hope you all saw the moon on your way here,” I said before beginning my last poem, “A Fingernail of Moon.” Clipped close from the darkness … the moon is filed down … to a delicate sliver … of smiling light … The applause that followed was as much for the moon as it was for my poem, I figured.
Jayn read one with an intriguing title, “The Poem Not Written,” and Katherine read an ode to “camellia sinensis” about her devotion to tea. Rosemary’s poem about her son’s helicopter going down in Afghanistan brought tears to my eyes (he survived but most others did not).
It was great to see Brigitte, Daphne, Dove, and Jeanine. Sally, the café owner who frequently has to run off to a singing gig was able to stay for the whole thing and added her adlibbed wit to the menu. A newcomer to Floyd name Dot delivered her poem for memory. About half way through the night’s readings the front door got busy swinging open as late comers arrived.
When I turned around to look I saw them. All men. At least six of them. They sat in the back of the café while the rest of us, all women, sat in front. Like boys and girls at a school dance, we eyeballed each other before the cross talk began, which led to one man coming up to the mic. He didn’t have a poem, but he used the spoken word. “What one book would you want with you if you were stranded on an island?” he posed, and an interesting discussion ensued.
It was 9:00 when the reading, lingering, and mingling wound down, still time to head over to Mama Lizardos and dance a set provided by “The Kind,” a Blacksburg Grateful Deadesque band with long-time ties to Floyd.
“I lived a real life today,” I said with a big smile to my husband when I got home. (We were providing respite care for an individual over the weekend and he agreed to stay home so I could go out.)
And the night was young and the living went on… The smile is still on my face.
Post note: Because the Café Del Sol will be closed for a week in mid February, the next spoken word open mic will not happen on the third Saturday, but on Saturday February 24th from 7-9. More about Floyd’s spoken word events HERE.
January 21st, 2007 5:36 pm
Very nice. I felt very peaceful when I read this entry.
January 21st, 2007 6:10 pm
“The poem not written.” God, I love that title!
January 21st, 2007 7:34 pm
Anything “Grateful Deadesque” is good with me. Sounds like a good tine was had by all.
Here from Michele’s,
Mike
January 21st, 2007 7:36 pm
Here from Micheles tonight.
Sounds like you had fun, I wish I had time & energy to get more involved in things like that in our community. Maybe someday when my kids are grown up- not that I yearn for THAT time!
January 21st, 2007 9:45 pm
I enjoyed your “living a real life” line! Good post.
January 22nd, 2007 12:38 am
Colleen, is the cafe closing for good?
January 22nd, 2007 9:13 am
No, just for a week. I clarified that in the front. Wouldn’t want people to get the wrong idea.
January 22nd, 2007 4:15 pm
That space looks so warm and inviting.
~S
January 22nd, 2007 4:58 pm
I think you do live the ‘real life’ and I am jealous. I think living the real life takes lots of dedication and time and I am too much a moving target…at least for now.
January 22nd, 2007 7:24 pm
i’m sure the applause was mostly for your poetry! “i lived a real life today”… i feel the same way when i am able to go out and do things like this…things that are fun, inspiring, and where i get to have fellowship with other kindred spirits. what a wonderful evening!
January 22nd, 2007 9:57 pm
It was such fun to read your blog as it brought back memories of driving through the peaceful little town of Floyd….a couple years ago, I vacationed in Cherokee National Park in the Smokies and then drove skyline…..I drove into Christiansburg and Floyd…and loved it there..My sis lives in VA and if I am that way anytime soon, I will have to look you up for open mic night….have always wanted to participate in one, but never have….
January 23rd, 2007 8:40 am
It looks so cosy, warm and inviting inside the cafe! I’d definitely go there quite a bit.
January 23rd, 2007 2:08 pm
The small cafes where people meet and friendships ensue just can’t be found with regularity in the big city. Folks are always moving in and out of the area like shifting sand. You have a wonderfully unique town there.
January 24th, 2007 10:24 am
Isn’t that funny how people split by gender.