A T-shirt Tribute
It was a final Farewell Memorial for Elliot, the poet and one of the founding members of the Floyd Writer’s Circle who passed away in November two years ago. The tribute was expressed through spontaneous performance art involving his T-shirt collection.
I was having a conversation with my friend Kathleen’s fiancé, Wayne, about The Epic of Gilgamesh and a toasted bacon and sautéed onion sandwich that we both like from the Blue Ridge Restaurant. Kathleen, a historical society archivist who had just addressed the crowd at the Village Green ribbon cutting ceremony, joined us. I reminded her that it was the second anniversary Elliot’s death. Elliot, Kathleen, Mara, and I were all founding members of the Floyd Writer’s Circle and regular Scrabble partners.
Elliot walked stooped over with a cane. With long hair and a full burly beard, he looked somewhat like the Harry Potter character, Hagrid; or maybe Bette Midler, who Elliot named when I asked him once who might play him in the movie of his life. He liked to wear a beret and a daisy behind his ear. He also wore and collected T-shirts, mostly whimsical and comical ones, or those related to his love of contra dancing.
Elliot didn’t have many ties with what little blood family he had. Kathleen, also a contra dancer, worked with a small group of friends to close down Elliot’s house after he died and ended up being the distributor of many of his belongings. She happened to have a large black garbage bag full of his T-shirts in her car.
“I’m ready to let them go, but first I have to photograph them. Do you want to do that with me now?” she asked.
It seemed fitting to spread the shirts out on the grass in front of the historic Jacksonville Cemetery. Elliot, who had a sense of humor but was also somewhat of a Scrooge, would have appreciated the drama and the aged grey tombstones. It was also the closest empty space we could find near the Grand Opening we were attending.
We snapped pictures of the lined up T-shirts from all angles, admiring their colors against the green grass. Turquoise, hot pink, green, and yellow ones gave a bold accent to the whites they were outnumbered by. Some I remembered from when Elliot wore them. Each told a piece of a story from Elliot’s life and gave us, his fellow writers, plenty of catchphrases to read and to ponder.
Kathleen was excited that she had just found a home for Elliot’s old cameras, another one of his collections. I reminded her that I still had a large box of his collector’s ink pens. After packing up the T-shirts together, she headed over to meet up Wayne at The Blue Ridge Restaurant. I agreed to take the T-shirts to the Café Del Sol Spoken Word that evening where some of us would be reading a few of Elliot’s poems and to give them away. As I lugged the heavy pack to my car, I felt like a strange kind of Santa and imagined passing out T-shirts to the poets, writers, and lovers at the café that night. What would Elliot think, I wondered? I laughed at thought of him with a snow white beard.
Post Notes: Read about the memorial Spoken Word held for Elliot two years ago HERE. And Scrabble with Elliot HERE. The closest I have of a posted photo of Elliot is HERE.
NEW: My photographs, a poem, and a quote are being featured today on Sheila Cason’s blog, Beauty, “a blog about beautiful things on weblogs.” Check it out HERE.
November 20th, 2007 3:01 am
Amazing the things people collect. A lovely rememberence of him though, for anyone who knew and loved him who might want to have something of his….! I am just getting rid of lots and lots of “tops”–t-shirts, sweatsgirts, sweaters, etc….That I just don;’t wear anymore but that are still good and wearable…Good Will, here they come!
November 20th, 2007 6:06 pm
This entry reminds me of your comment on scrapbooking in my blog today — literally! What a wonderful way to celebrate his personality.
BTW, did I mention that I have a little condo in Brevard, NC? Love those Blue Ridge Mountains.
November 20th, 2007 6:45 pm
Oh, you’re not too far from my son in Asheville.
November 20th, 2007 7:13 pm
He sounds like he was quite the character! Fitting that you would have had such an unusual tribute for him.
November 20th, 2007 8:07 pm
Oh, bless his heart, it seems like you have lost so many people in your life Colleen. I guess I should say “Bless your heart.”…that was a unique tribute that he probably would have liked. He had a great collection didn’t he? I have been trying to make them all out but my eyes just aren’t what they used to be.
November 20th, 2007 10:20 pm
Kathleen recognized some of the artists of humorous art ones. All of those and the comedic ones got taken. The ones that are left, which I’ll be donating to our thrift shop, Angels in the Attic, are those with the names of contra dance bands or dance weekends on them, like Wild Asparagus, Fiddlehead, Gypsy Meltdown, and Moondance. They’re all way too big for me.
November 20th, 2007 11:06 pm
I love the tee-shirts spread out near the tombstones. What a great tribute. He must have been smiling down then..maybe even writing a poem about it!
November 21st, 2007 8:25 am
At first I thought you could make a t-shirt quilt:
http://patchworkreflections.blogspot.com/2006/10/recycled-memories.html
But your idea is much better, distribute them among the various artists and writers in Floyd, so everyone will have a little piece of Elliott for inspiration.
November 21st, 2007 10:04 am
Interesting way to do a tribute to someone. Nice to see him remembered in a way that he would have appreciated.
November 21st, 2007 7:51 pm
wonderful about the shirts and funny Bushisms
November 21st, 2007 10:23 pm
Wow, he must have been some guy! Nice tribute. 🙂
November 27th, 2007 7:40 pm
What a great story, Colleen. And what a great final tribute to Elliot. I have a feeling he’s out there in the Universe just smiling away.