This One’s for You, Dan
I’ve been following John Mellencamp since he was John Cougar and MTV was actually good. Mellencamp was born on the same day, month and year as my brother Danny, who died in 2001. Danny, who looked like Mellencamp and had some of the same mannerisms, was a big fan. In 1998, he turned me on to Your Life is Now on Mellencamp’s 1998 self titled album, a song that we danced and sang along to in our sister Kathy’s living room during a family
Labor Day cook-out. I had mostly been familiar with Mellencamp’s older stuff that played on MTV when he had long hair and I had a crush, so it was good to hear and appreciate his music again.
Joe surprised me by buying tickets to Mellencamp’s Roanoke performance Wednesday night at the Berglund Performing Art Theatre, part of his Plain Spoken Tour. It wasn’t like I had to be dragged to go, but I wouldn’t have bought the tickets myself. I thought they were too expensive and we see so much good music in Floyd, as it is. John (after experiencing his music so close-up, I feel I can call him by his first name) is a seasoned showman (40 years) with just the right balance of bad boy irreverence and heartfelt social conscience, not to mention a legacy of heartland songs that make you want to sing-along and dance, which we did.
I loved the non-Civic Center venue, about the size of the Music Hall in Boston, where I had seen The Youngbloods, Sly and the Family Stone, Van Morrison, Donovon and other ‘60/’70 bands, and not like seeing Led Zepplin at Boston Gardens, which was huge. It was reported that about 1,800 attended the Roanoke show. It turned out to be an unforgettable night, one that I experienced through my brother’s eyes, and I kept thinking that my sister Sherry (also a fan) was going to go crazy when she saw the pictures and video clips I got.
It got a little rowdy. Some in the rock and roll crowd with seats near the stage and others who moved up close and filled the aisle, seemed to be playing out Mellencamp’s “I fought authority” song” and giving the ushers a hard time. There was a “don’t make me come down there” moment from Mellencamp, who requested that people stop fighting and asked if everyone was alright. “I must have been 27 when I wrote that song. I still feel the same way tonight as I did when I wrote it,” he said as he broke into the Authority Song.
He still chews gum and has the same swag strut that he had in his Hurt So Good video. He didn’t wear motorcycle chaps like he did during that video but started the show in a suit. After a brief intermission when he walked Carlene Carter off stage (who opened for him and then joined him in a number), and after a violinist and accordionist played a fine art performance of what we thought were Mellencamp songs, he took the jacket off, rolled up his t-shirt sleeves and even put a thumb in an imaginary blue jean waist loop for a second.
“I don’t even know why I play this song anymore, except I know you guys still want to hear it,” he said about his classic Jack and Diane, giving some background to the story. There were new songs and a couple from a musical he wrote with Stephen King. He also told a few funny stories about his family life.
John is a really good dancer, and I kept waiting for him to dance, my favorite part of those old MTV Hurt So Good, Little Pink Houses videos, but I’m pretty sure I heard him say in an interview once that he saw James Brown trying to do a split at 70 years-old and decided he wasn’t ever going to do anything like that.
There were so many highlights. “Thanks for getting me here,” I said to Joe. I don’t think he minded that I got a crush all over again and that I made front stage eye contact with John Mellencamp.
Your Life is Now, Danny HERE.
June 19th, 2015 4:10 pm
Congrats on your gift!
June 19th, 2015 5:29 pm
When I heard how much he paid, I said, “ok, we’ll call it a birthday present.” Someone at the concert must have heard that story and wished me a happy birthday (which was in May!). Someone else introduced themselves to me. It was a woman from Wytheville who reads this blog and recognized me from it! That was a kick (hi Joy).
June 19th, 2015 10:14 pm
This is one of your best Musical Entries so far!! Oh my GOD! I wish I was there with you! I can’t stop crying! His mannerisms remind me of Danny all over! He made me a couple of cassettes of his music. I LOVE HIM and always had a crush too. I have seen him 2x Back in the 90’s! Joe gave you the best present evah!!!!!! xo
June 19th, 2015 11:26 pm
Yeah, did you see that Danny strut at the end of the last video and end of the concert?! And check out this older version of that same song, Cherry Bomb, and how long his hair was then. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KF0gsbQKhD8
June 20th, 2015 8:45 am
Thanks for sharing Mellencamp’s music – always entertaining!
June 20th, 2015 10:32 am
I did see the Danny Strut and I love him with long hair. I still like the long hair look now and not the shaved head look!! Check out your timeline with my favorite song and the video has great pics of him!
June 20th, 2015 9:00 pm
Hi Colleen! I was thrilled to meet you. I’ve been inspired by your creativity for a long time. Thanks for the “nudge” to comment. This was a special review of the concert, and I love your connection between John M. and your brother’s memory.
June 20th, 2015 9:35 pm
Hi Joy, I got a big kick out of meeting you and you recognizing me from here. I wonder how you found the blog. Please feel free to comment anytime, it helps me know I’m not just talking to myself.
June 20th, 2015 9:40 pm
Colleen, I cannot remember how I originally found you. I peruse other blogger’s ” blog rolls” as you have in your sidebar. I’m certain that’s how I found you, but I’m not sure of the source. Please keep writing. You are being heard loud and clear by many of us who are reluctant to comment.
June 25th, 2015 12:24 am
[…] 10. “It got a little rowdy. Some in the rock and roll crowd with seats near the stage and others who moved up close and filled the aisle, seemed to be playing out Mellencamp’s “I fought authority” song” and giving the ushers a hard time. There was a “don’t make me come down there” moment from Mellencamp, who requested that people stop fighting and asked if everyone was alright.” – Read more about Mellencamp, who I’ve been falling since he was John Cougar and MTV was good HERE. […]
August 18th, 2015 11:00 am
John Mellencamp – wow!
What a lovely gift you received!!
Have a Great Week!
Peace 🙂
November 7th, 2016 8:10 am
[…] Read about the John Mellencamp concert Joe and I went to last year at the same Roanoke venue (The Bergland Center) and where I was restricted from taking pictures or videos HERE. […]